Comments on: Get Advice http://girlshrink.com Advice, & Counseling on Relationships, Dating, Mental Health and More. Sat, 20 Feb 2010 05:25:10 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: GirlShrink http://girlshrink.com/advice/comment-page-1/#comment-246 GirlShrink Sat, 12 Sep 2009 01:25:53 +0000 http://girlshrink.com/wp/?page_id=15#comment-246 Thanks for the great letter luvgirl, but let me tell you -- it is perfectly normal for you to have a crush on a teacher but to answer your questions - no, I do not think that he is attracted to you or your classmate. If he saw your doodle, he may be a bit flattered or he may be concerned that a kid in his class has a crush on him. Either way - the normal response for your teacher would be to have zero response to any flirtation made by you or your classmate. You may think that he is interested in the other girl because YOU think she is pretty and worthy of more attention than you. But that may not be the case. At least I certainly hope so. Trust me when I say that nothing will become of this crush, if it did - he would be out of a job. So its better for you to "move on" and think about what you are learning in this class, and if you are going to have any crushes -- they should be on 13 year old boys - not your teachers:) Have a great year in school! Thanks for the great letter luvgirl, but let me tell you — it is perfectly normal for you to have a crush on a teacher but to answer your questions – no, I do not think that he is attracted to you or your classmate. If he saw your doodle, he may be a bit flattered or he may be concerned that a kid in his class has a crush on him. Either way – the normal response for your teacher would be to have zero response to any flirtation made by you or your classmate. You may think that he is interested in the other girl because YOU think she is pretty and worthy of more attention than you. But that may not be the case. At least I certainly hope so. Trust me when I say that nothing will become of this crush, if it did – he would be out of a job. So its better for you to “move on” and think about what you are learning in this class, and if you are going to have any crushes — they should be on 13 year old boys – not your teachers:) Have a great year in school!

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]]> By: luvgurl http://girlshrink.com/advice/comment-page-1/#comment-239 luvgurl Mon, 07 Sep 2009 18:21:45 +0000 http://girlshrink.com/wp/?page_id=15#comment-239 ok dear Girlshrink, I have my world studies teacher. and i have a HUUUUUUUGE crush on him. In class i sit completly in the back im a very quiet person in his class i dont do sidebar conversations. but in his class i give him my full attention. i look him in the eyes the whole time he talks everytime AND I LISTEN. the thing is that he does that too. You know how teachers take quick glances at each student? yeah he does that but with me he stares back at me. He's the type of teacher who talks loUdly so he can wake up the class and he says uuuuh and um a lot but when he looks at me right after he sounds nervous cuz he makes the uuuuhs longer as if he got lost in what he was saying while looking at me. im a good student in his class a side from that i dont talk a lot cuz im nervous around him. sometimes also their is this staff lady who comes to help him around the class and since he staRes at me alot right afer he quickly lOoks at her and i think it's to make shure that she didn't notice him staring. AND also once he turned back from the board and while he was talking he looked only at me for the whole time for like 1 minute. it felt soo awesome! =) lol. btw im 13 and everytime i think of him i want him soooooo bad! he's really hot! BUT SOMETIMES I SEE HIM LIKE SORTA FLIRTING WITH HER (SHE'S PRETTY) AND I FEEL LIKE KIKING HER ASS! I SWEAR IT'S SOOOO ANOYING. AND I SEE HIM SOMETIMES HE NOTICES THAT I HAVE A HATEFULL LOOK WHEN I LOOK AT HER WHILE THEIR TALKING. so my first question is do you thiink he could be attracted to me or like me or something? and the second thing is that i doodled his name and last name very beautifully and put it in a heart and did that on the very first page of this notebook i have and by accident i forgot it in his class on friday. and i know he looked inside cuz when i went back i saw from the window that it was on his desk. and its still on his desk cuz i coudnt take it back. the class was locked. then on friday that same day i sent him an email saying that if he found it, could he give it to me at the end of class. AND stupidly i asked him that is he ok with a stutend liking him cuz i could stop. and now im really scared to see him on tuesday cuz i dont want him to think im wierd or im desirespectul or something. what if he's not even interested in me at all?!?!? plus since friday were on sunday and he still didnt respond back! arent teachers suppose to check their emails regularly?!?! OMG! im soooooooo nervous. so then here's my second question: what do you think he thought when he saw the drawing and what do you think he's gonna think of me after he read the email? WELL THANK YOU SOOO MUCH! i hope that you can help me .XOXOXOXO HAVE A GREAT LABOR DAI! BIE! ok dear Girlshrink,
I have my world studies teacher. and i have a HUUUUUUUGE crush on him. In class i sit completly in the back im a very quiet person in his class i dont do sidebar conversations. but in his class i give him my full attention. i look him in the eyes the whole time he talks everytime AND I LISTEN. the thing is that he does that too. You know how teachers take quick glances at each student? yeah he does that but with me he stares back at me. He’s the type of teacher who talks loUdly so he can wake up the class and he says uuuuh and um a lot but when he looks at me right after he sounds nervous cuz he makes the uuuuhs longer as if he got lost in what he was saying while looking at me. im a good student in his class a side from that i dont talk a lot cuz im nervous around him. sometimes also their is this staff lady who comes to help him around the class and since he staRes at me alot right afer he quickly lOoks at her and i think it’s to make shure that she didn’t notice him staring. AND also once he turned back from the board and while he was talking he looked only at me for the whole time for like 1 minute. it felt soo awesome! =) lol. btw im 13 and everytime i think of him i want him soooooo bad! he’s really hot! BUT SOMETIMES I SEE HIM LIKE SORTA FLIRTING WITH HER (SHE’S PRETTY) AND I FEEL LIKE KIKING HER ASS! I SWEAR IT’S SOOOO ANOYING. AND I SEE HIM SOMETIMES HE NOTICES THAT I HAVE A HATEFULL LOOK WHEN I LOOK AT HER WHILE THEIR TALKING.

so my first question is do you thiink he could be attracted to me or like me or something?

and the second thing is that i doodled his name and last name very beautifully and put it in a heart and did that on the very first page of this notebook i have and by accident i forgot it in his class on friday. and i know he looked inside cuz when i went back i saw from the window that it was on his desk. and its still on his desk cuz i coudnt take it back. the class was locked.
then on friday that same day i sent him an email saying that if he found it, could he give it to me at the end of class. AND stupidly i asked him that is he ok with a stutend liking him cuz i could stop. and now im really scared to see him on tuesday cuz i dont want him to think im wierd or im desirespectul or something. what if he’s not even interested in me at all?!?!?
plus since friday were on sunday and he still didnt respond back! arent teachers suppose to check their emails regularly?!?!
OMG! im soooooooo nervous.

so then here’s my second question:

what do you think he thought when he saw the drawing and what do you think he’s gonna think of me after he read the email?

WELL THANK YOU SOOO MUCH! i hope that you can help me .XOXOXOXO HAVE A GREAT LABOR DAI! BIE!

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